Staying independent at Abbeyfield House Westbury

How Abbeyfield House Westbury helps older people stay independent and connected

Claire Cox, Sheltered Housing Manager at Abbeyfield House in Westbury, shares how shared mealtimes, everyday companionship, and a supportive local community help combat loneliness while helping residents maintain their independence.

“When people think about moving into sheltered housing, there is often a misconception that it means giving up your independence, but as the Sheltered Housing Manager at Abbeyfield House in Westbury, I see the reality of life here daily. Living in a close-knit, smaller house with 12 private studio flats never means losing your freedom or personal routine, as it provides a secure foundation of companionship, support and community that empowers older people to continue living on their own terms.

“One of the greatest challenges facing older people today is loneliness, which can creep in so slowly whether through reduced mobility, the loss of a partner, or family moving further away. At Abbeyfield, our foundation is built around creating security, warmth, and belonging so that residents can enjoy life in the company of others while retaining their own space and lifestyle.”

Shared mealtimes and daily companionship

“At the heart of life in our Westbury house are our shared mealtimes, because cooking for one person can so easily feel like a tiresome chore that leads to skipped meals or a loss of interest in food altogether.

“Sitting down together for a freshly prepared meal changes that dynamic, turning our dining room into a warm space filled with cheerful conversation, shared laughter and stories. Whether residents are chatting about current events, sharing memories, or planning their afternoon, these moments together ensure that no one ever feels invisible or left out.

“At the same time, because each resident has their room and freedom over their daily routine, they can choose when to enjoy quiet personal time and when to join in, striking a natural balance between privacy and companionship.”

A supportive community that cares

“Living in a smaller, 12-flat house creates a welcoming atmosphere where everyone is known and valued as an individual. Companionship naturally extends far beyond the dining table, with residents looking out for one another and forming deep, lasting friendships over a coffee morning or out in the garden. Our staff and volunteers are always on hand to offer a helping hand or sit down for a chat, while our regular local visitors ensure our home remains firmly rooted in the wider Westbury community.”

Retaining independence while feeling secure

“Sheltered housing offers a supportive home that takes away the stress of managing a large household, arranging repairs, or worrying about cooking every meal. All household chores and maintenance are taken care of, giving residents back the time and energy to focus on the hobbies, visits, trips out and activities they enjoy. Having that quiet peace of mind, with friendly support always nearby, gives everyone the confidence to make their own choices every single day and proves that you can enjoy life fully while never having to experience loneliness.”

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